Do you think it is good dating advice for mothers to tell their daughters don’t date all guys just want sex?
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No, I don’t think it’s good advice. It’s just another stereotype. It’s the same as saying to a boy “Don’t date girls, they’re all gold-diggers and all they want is your money.”
Spreading generalization and sexism isn’t going to help anyone.
Portions of what is described above is good advice.
When you’re young it is best to focus on an education rather then boys.
The chances of an education going somewhere is much higher then a intimate relationship between two children.
No. That doesn’t sound like good advice to me.
no, it sounds more of a grandma and mom worried sick aabout their”lil girl”out in the dating world. Afraid she will not make right choices for her body and health, afraid she will be pressured into having sex and ending up pregant. Perhaps being over protective to the point of lying to the girl and hopefully scaring the girl from even noticing boys until she is much older.
But, saying that..boys of 13 and upward are changing ..raging hormones and all. But that is a life cycle.it does not make them horrible creeps.
Take their adive with a grain of salt..know they are trying to protect you..and just keep showing them what a responsible person you are.
Sounds like your mom and grandma are a wee bit paranoid. maybe they are speaking from their experience. Just tell them you have better judgment than them.
That is a terrible thing to say, What about your grandpa?? Or your father??
There are tons of great guys out there. Yes there are some creeps too. but to Label every guy like that? That’s just wrong.
I don’t think that’s the way to talk to you about sex, but you have to consider why they talk to you about sex and dating that way. They know how serious the decisions are you have to make, and they want you to be as safe as possible. To think about it another way, people tell kids horror stories about drugs that mostly aren’t true. They make you think that the first time you do cocaine you’ll become an addict and your life will fall apart. This probably won’t happen, but it’s the only way parents know how to emphasize the seriousness of drugs.
Yeah that is really bad advice. I understand your gramar and mother is coming from. They don’t want to see anyone getting hurt, maybe because something happened from a previous relationship.
Giving out incorrect advice is dishonest and is actually lying. I know your trying to protect your loved ones but saying that isnt going to make anything better it’s a relaity of life. It people didnt make mistakes, then people wouldnt learn, and then people wouldnt become better people because there wouldnt be anyhting to improve on.
Sure Std and getting pregaunt is a risk, but it’s a protecting yourself?. Maybe giving advice on how to proctect would be better than saying ” ALL BOYS ARE LIEARS AND CHEATERS.”
Good luck!
MOST guys just want sex. Really, most.