Can anyone give good dating advice?
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well in the begining don’t get too nervous. try to do something clever to get their attention. ask questions about who they are and when you feel there might be sexual chemistry ask her to go out to dinner with you. or tell her about some great restaurant that you’d like to take her to. usually it starts very innocent…
When you have spoken to the girl for a while if you think she likes you then just say “well i have to go now but maybe you would like to hang out some time” see what she says if she says yes say “great can i get your number” if she says no say “ok well it was nice talking” good luck !!!
A lot of people don’t start dating until they leave high school. Strange, but true!
Girls aren’t aliens. Sometimes we appear to be, but really, we’re not, and to my utter shock and horror i have discovered that there is a possibility that guys may have come from planet earth as well.
When you approach a girl to talk to her, don’t think of her as a potential girlfriend, but just as another human being. You say you’re good at starting conversations, so talk with a girl, get to know her, and if you hit it off, see if she wants to go on a date some time.
You sound like a really nice guy and i wish you the best of luck!
Find a girl in one of your classes that catches your eye and ask her if she would be willing to study with you. Memorize some funny jokes, but not dirty ones and make her laugh. Then when you are finished studying for the night tell her how much fun and more focused you felt with her there to study with and ask if she would want to study again sometime. If she had fun, she will say yes.
Hi,
I know its considered a bit naff in some circles but I suggest a dating agency. You learn very quickly about what makes a good date or a bad date. Its no less contrived than meeting a girl in a club then agreeing to meet at a later date.
You’ll also learn alot more about the kind of woman that you do eventually want to have a long term relationship with. You always start out with a basic idea of what kind of woman you like.
If you do find someone that you click with, you do need to make it very clear to her that the relationship may at times take a back seat to your studies. I sense you would be better to find someone that is very independent and won’t need cosseting.
Good luck!!