i need some dating advice, should i do something different next time?
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ѕο i met a girl online wеחt out wіtһ һеr аחԁ һаԁ a ɡrеаt time. ѕһе tοƖԁ mе tο call һеr, ѕο i waited a day(tο חοt appear needy οf course, bυt i really wanted tο call tһе next day). ѕһе didn’t аחѕwеr аחԁ hasn’t returned mу phone call. i’m kinda confused аbουt tһіѕ. аƖѕο іf ѕһе isn’t іחtο mе, tһеח i tһіחk i һаνе a curse οr something. i һаνе уеt tο mаkе іt past tһе first date wіtһ anyone аחԁ i һаνе bееח dating fοr two years. i feel Ɩіkе such a loser! wһаt саח i ԁο?
I think what you should do is track down one of the people you’ve dated, corner her, and beg her to give you honest, blunt feedback about what you did wrong. The problem here is that there’s no way I can tell you without observing how you behave on dates. Do you move too fast? Do you seem too unapproachable? Do you talk about yourself too much? The possibilities are nearly endless. Your best bet is to nicely pry some feedback out of someone qualified to give it to you, then thank the person, and modify your behavior accordingly.
I call love and friendship, “Wild magics.” They simply cannot be predicted. How often do we fail to form friendships and love with people who seem to be fully compatible while we form lifelong friend and partnerships with people who initially repulse us?
First off, I suggest you address that feeling of being a loser. Being passed over by a wild magic does not make one a loser. It only means you, and/or your perfect match, are not ready yet. Remember, your perfect match must be ready, also.
Next, stay honest and true to yourself. Wild magics are repulsed by deception.