Lesbian dating advice?
Kelly M аѕkеԁ:
Im a 20 year οƖԁ lesbian. I аm аt a military school, wһеrе I аm חοt аbƖе tο leave οftеח, tһе ratio οf male tο female іѕ аbουt 10:1. I һаνе bееח unable tο find anyone. Dating websites аrе חοt working, I һаνе tried a lot οf tһеm, still חο luck finding someone. Im חοt sure wһаt еƖѕе tο ԁο, аחу advice?
I wουƖԁ Ɩіkе tο point out: If I “tried men” I wουƖԁ bе a lesbian now wουƖԁ I?
Drop out, go to a normal college. Lots of young open-minded women for you
DUDE!!! you are surrounded by MEN!!! BUFF MEN!!!! KNOCK YOURSELF OUT!!!!
My advice is when you do decide to leave. to go to a gay friendly city….and go to a club or a bar and just try to meet new people.
You go go online to find bars/gay friendly resturants/ clubs etc….
It’s probably going to be pretty tough for you to find someone because you don’t get to leave often. How long will you be at military school for? I suggest you try more dating agencies – just keep trying them, put ads in papers etc. Something should come out of it
When you do leave, socialise as much as possible. Go out to gay clubs and do as much networking as possible – go out with friends who know gay women and you will soon meet other bisexual/lesbian women and you’ll be able to take it from there.
Right now though you’ll just have to deal with what you’ve got – Internet dating agencies. You should persevere for now, something good could come of it!
Ouch military school! I had a hard time finding a gf when i was like 17-19. then i figured it out. i was trying way tooo hard. Its like you want to offer yourself to someone so bad trying too hard gets in the way. I used to think i was being punished for some odd reason but now i look at it (im 22) and it happened for a reason. If i had a gf at 18 i would have been like a puppet on a string.
I guess what im trying to say is independence / responsibility shows alot. I hate to say this but Your missing the whole lesbian world being in Military school, you have to hide who you are. Unless the Military is your passion get out and go to art school youll def find a lesbian there! lol
don’t…keep trying men.
They arn’t allowed, have you ever heard of that Don’t ask thing policy? Wow, America is very prejudice.